Resolutions

Date: 1st Jan 2026

Dear Kapish,

At the start of 2025, I had written about the year gone by as a transformative year for you and it has been a good one!

I used the example of Tic-Tac-Toe game and you eventually picked on that and learnt how to master it. You also made the successful transition to a new school and settled in quickly. You also quickly learnt a bit of swimming and cycling to complete the year

This year, we decided to spend the New Years' at home and just before sleeping, Mumma asked you what your Resolutions were for 2026

Your obvious response was, "What's resolutions?"

Mumma then explained that 'resolutions' are focus areas for you in the new year and again asked you what all you wanted to achieve in 2026. You thought for a while and then listed out the below:

1. Learn Cycling and Swimming (which is work in progress)

2. Improve your hand-writing (something which are already working on)

3. Read more books

4. Be more firm and strict (especially against people who are mean to you)  

5. Spend more time with Family  

 

All of these are well articulated and mature thoughts that merge well into your overall growth trajectory - so well done!

Mumma and me also then listed down our resolutions which included read more books and spend less time on the phone and more time as a family 

So, here's hoping that 2026 brings us a lot more special memories together!

Cheers,

Dadoo 

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